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  • Growing Up Gen X: Why the Mixtape Still Defines Our Lives

    Growing Up Gen X: Why the Mixtape Still Defines Our Lives

    REWIND Worthy

    A Life in Rewind, Replay, and Realness.

    Before Streaming, Scrolling, And Skipping — We LIVED Life Like A Mixtape: On INSTINCT.

    Gen X isn’t a single soundtrack — it’s a whole collection of Side As and Side Bs. Some of us were teens in the thick of the ‘80s, rewinding tapes in our bedrooms and dancing in nightclubs before the internet had a name. Others were still riding bikes at sunset, making friendship bracelets, and growing up just in time for the rise of grunge, girl power, and the late-night music video marathon. We came of age in different ways, at different times — but we all felt it.

    We took photos and waited for the pics to get developed – then we meticulously arranged them in albums. We collected albums like we collected mix tapes – and we knew what every single one meant.

    Because no matter when you were born in that 1965–1980 window, you didn’t just live the culture…you recorded it. And it’s still playing.

    Long live the mixtape of life. Let’s go on a trip down memory lane…

    “When I started writing this, I realised the mixtape isn’t just a memory — it’s a metaphor for Gen X life. We recorded things as they happened, rewound the bits we didn’t quite get, and somehow made chaos feel special, regardless of how simple it was. It wasn’t always pretty, but it was ours.”

    founder of maison 1973, Nic Tierney

    Life Was SIMPLE And We Loved It

    It’s the late 80’s. Your knees are grazed from riding bikes without helmets, your hair smells like Impulse Illusions, and your fingers are covered in melted Paddle Pop. You’re lying on your bedroom floor, rewinding a cassette with a pencil and willing your older sibling to stay off the phone so you can tape the top 10 off the radio.

    Sound familiar? Haha, that’s cause it was our life – our simple, chaotic, crazy Gen X life.

    Welcome to the wild, weird, and wonderful world of growing up Gen X — whether you were dancing at a uni bar or decorating your locker. We all grew up in this special era that only we know all about.

    When phones were attached to walls and they had cords and could be left at home. The original ‘do not disturb’ was simply just leaving it off the hook.

    Cars had no air conditioning – just big windows with hard as hell handles to turn. We drove stick shift, grinding gears and reverse parking like a boss. Nothing was complicated, it was a time that things were built for use. They were necessary and they were useful.

    Playing handball on the road after school, jumping on the trampoline without safety rails or nets.

    This wasn’t just a childhood. It was a mixtape. Recorded in real time. Messy. Curated. Emotional. Full of skips, edits, and songs that made no sense — until they did.

    It was a time of just being yourself and the only thing we were obsessed with recording was music. Not ourselves, no selfies, no idea of what else was going on around us except what was happening in our neighbourhoods, in our friendship groups.

    The Soundtrack of US

    Depending on where you grew up, your soundtrack had its own flavour:

    In Australia, we had Countdown, Rage, Recovery, and the unforgettable Triple J Hottest 100. We knew the pub-rock glory of Cold Chisel and the dream-pop drama of Icehouse. INXS felt like global royalty — but ours.

    In New Zealand, we tuned into RTR Countdown and the magic of Radio With Pictures. Dave Dobbyn, Crowded House, and Shona Laing weren’t just names — they were national treasure status.

    In the UK, it was Top of the Pops, John Peel, Smash Hits, and the explosion of Britpop. We danced in our bedrooms to Bananarama, The Human League, and later, Blur and Oasis, long before the headlines caught up.

    In the US, it was MTV’s golden age — TRL, Yo! MTV Raps, 120 Minutes. Grunge was rising from the garage, hip hop was taking shape, and girl groups like En Vogue were giving us harmony and power.

    And no matter where you were — we all remember hitting ‘record’ and praying no one spoke over the intro.

    Our music wasn’t algorithm-fed. It was handed to us by friends, posters, rage clips, and gut instinct. We stood in record stores debating between Alanis and The Cure. We slow-danced to Roxette and lost our minds at Big Day Out. We screamed lyrics from the backseat with the windows down.

    We felt every word.

    The MIXTAPE As A Metaphor

    We weren’t a playlist. We were a mixtape.

    Side A was the ambition, the firsts, the fire in us.
    Side B was the softness, the reinvention, the stuff we got emotional to and told no one about.

    Some chapters we fast-forwarded through. Others we wore out from replaying.

    There were hidden tracks — the unspoken parts of growing up. There were unplanned overdubs — the noise we didn’t mean to record but still lives in the background.

    Some things were taped over. Some stayed scratched, imperfect, real.

    And yet, we kept recording and listening.

    Every mixtape told a story in biro and smudges. So did we. They were so sacred to us.

    Screens That SHAPED Us

    Then there were the movies and TV – a rite of passage.

    We grew up with The Breakfast Club, Reality Bites, My So-Called Life, and Muriel’s Wedding. We saw ourselves in awkward teens, chaotic women, and girls who were a bit too much (but in the best way).

    There was the all time release of Dirty Dancing and our obsession with Patrick Swayze began. Going to the drive in to watch a movie. Buying actual tickets to things. Keeping them as souvenirs.

    Kirk Cameron and Growing Pains, the original crushes – Michael J Fox, John Stamos, River Phoenix, Rob Lowe, Kurt Cobain, Axl Rose – the list was endless.

    Friday nights meant lining up at Video Ezy or Civic Video. You knew exactly what aisle Empire Records lived in and you always tried to get the last of the new releases – only to be disappointed as they were all gone. You rewound the tape out of respect – and you tried to get it back on time to avoid the fine (oh those fines lol).

    We memorised lines like scripture:

    “How do you like them apples?”
    (Good Will Hunting, 1997)

    We didn’t stream. We stayed up to watch it and feel it happen in real time. We didn’t scroll. We rewound and replayed. Over and over.

    And that’s the difference. We just kept living in the moment of life. We weren’t too bothered about anything else. Gosh, how incredible.

    “Writing this has been such a joy. The list of nuances and memories has been endless. I could keep writing for days and still not capture it all. This is just the tip of the iceberg as a Gen X growing up. This will be the first of many mix tape moments”

    THE Feels

    We didn’t have Pinterest. We had glue sticks and magazine tear-outs. We decorated diaries with Lisa Frank stickers and wrote our crushes’ names in glitter pen. We shopped at Granny Mays, collected erasers and scratch and sniff stickers.

    We made friendship bracelets and mood boards. We roller-skated in bubble skirts, wore cinch belts with Supre singlets, and proudly spritzed ‘CK One‘ before heading out.

    Our icons weren’t influencers. They were Kate Moss, Elle Macpherson, Linda, Christy, Naomi, Madonna, Pat Benatar, Whitney Houston, Belinda Carlisle, Tina Turner — untouchable and magnetic. They weren’t selling to us. They were just being. And we watched, and we learned. We poured through magazines just to see the latest in their lives.

    We played Snake on Nokia phones. We sat on the grass waiting for the Mr Whippy van to play its jingle. We had to be home to catch our favourite show. If you were lucky you had a VHS – if not, too bad. You missed it and you had to wait for next week.

    And the food?

    Apricot chicken. Devilled sausages. Party pies.

    BBQ Shapes and Toobs

    Zooper Doopers and Sunnyboys

    Milo piled four spoons deep in a mug

    Cheese and lettuce sandwiches

    The list is endless. So good. So good in fact, we’ll dedicate a whole other blog to it at another time.

    Why It Still LIVES In Us

    We may live in a digital world now, but our hearts beat analog.

    We remember because these moments weren’t just trends. They were imprints. They taught us rhythm, rebellion, expression, release. We loved every angst ridden moment of it all.

    That’s why certain songs still hit. That’s why certain films still feel like home. That’s why we get goosebumps when the Mr Whippy music plays or Smells Like Teen Spirit starts when you’re stuck in traffic. It’s instinctual to get those windows down and turn that music up full blast. We feel it in our core. It never, ever leaves us. Nor do we want it to.

    We’re not stuck in the past. We just know a good memory is like a great song — it grows with you.

    And like any good mixtape — we’re still curating. Still evolving. Still adding tracks.


    “I grew up rewinding tapes with pencils, eating BBQ Shapes after school, talking on the phone in the kitchen and figuring things out without Google or group chats. It was chaotic, unfiltered, kind of magic — and somehow, we all just made it work. Gen X didn’t just live through it. We recorded it, our way.”

    maison 1973 founder, Nic Tierney.

    The Maison 1973 Takeaway:

    For the rhythm, the memory, and the woman you still are.

    Gen X For Life.

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  • Understanding What Matters Most in Midlife

    Understanding What Matters Most in Midlife

    Genuine FULFILMENT

    So, what matters most to you?

    The MIDLIFE Perspective Shift

    There’s a moment—sometimes gradual, sometimes all at once—when you realise that you no longer have the energy for what doesn’t matter. The endless proving, the striving, the worrying about things that once seemed so urgent but now feel insignificant.

    Midlife is not about fading into the background, we like to think it’s about stepping forward with clarity, purpose, and an unshakable sense of self.

    The maison 1973 woman has lived enough to know what truly matters. And, more importantly, what doesn’t.

    She is no longer chasing approval or trends, and she has outgrown the need to justify her choices. Instead, she is focused on

    depth over distraction, quality over quantity, and confidence over comparison.

    But in a world that is constantly pushing for more, faster, louder—it takes intention to slow down, to define success on your own terms, and to prioritise what genuinely brings fulfilment.

    Let’s explore.

    “At the end of the day, it’s pretty simple for me. It’s the love and care I have for the people who matter most, the unwavering companionship of my dog, my health, purpose in my work and being surrounded by nature. Everything else? Nice to have, but not essential now. When I focus on these things, I feel rich.”

    creator of maison 1973, Nic Tierney.

    Living With PURPOSE

    At this stage in life, we are done with doing things just because we should. Purpose is no longer about checking boxes or climbing ladders—we believe it’s about aligning our time, energy, and talents with what feels meaningful.

    For some of us, that might mean pivoting in a career that no longer inspires them. For others, it’s about carving out more time for creativity, for projects that light them up, for work that feels expansive instead of draining.

    We Ask Ourselves: Does how I spend my time reflect what truly matters to me? If so, wonderful. If not, how can we adjust it? It’s an ongoing dialogue we have. Keeps us focussed on the important things in our lives.

    We Like To Make It Actionable: Just start small. Carve out even 10 minutes a day for something that brings you joy—writing, painting, reading, learning. The key is to just start.

    Who Inspires This? Women all over the world and from all walks of life inspire us daily. Women who redefine success on their own terms, at every stage of life. We take our hats off to them. It’s incredibly wonderful to see.

    We’ll Leave You With This Thought: Purpose isn’t always about what you do—it’s about why you do it.


    Cultivating PRESENCE

    With life feeling fuller than ever—career, family, relationships, responsibilities—it’s easy to move through days on autopilot. But being present is a choice, and it’s one that deeply impacts our sense of fulfilment.

    Presence is about slowing down enough to actually experience life instead of rushing through it.

    It’s about truly listening when someone speaks. It’s about engaging with our surroundings instead of always planning the next thing.

    We Ask Ourselves: Am I truly here, or just going through the motions?

    We Like To Make It Actionable: Create small daily rituals—whether it’s making coffee slowly, journaling for five minutes, or simply taking a deep breath before responding to an email. It’s ok to be still and silent – when did we start to believe it wasn’t?

    We’ll Leave You With This Thought: A full life isn’t about doing more—it’s about being fully present for what you’re already doing.


    CONFIDENCE In Style & Self

    One of the most freeing things about midlife? You dress for yourself now. You’re no longer chasing trends or dressing to be seen—you’re dressing because it feels right.

    Style in midlife is about effortless refinement, investment over impulse, and knowing exactly what works for you. It’s about the confidence that comes with experience—the ability to walk into a room and own it, not because you’re the loudest, but because your presence is undeniable.

    We Ask Ourselves: Am I dressing for myself or for external validation?

    We Like To Make It Actionable: Clear out anything from your wardrobe that doesn’t feel like you anymore. Build a collection of timeless, beautifully made pieces that bring ease to your everyday life.

    Who Embodies This For Us? Women like Carine Roitfeld, Cate Blanchett, and Tilda Swinton—style icons who have never needed trends to be relevant.

    We’ll Leave You With This Thought: True style isn’t about what you wear—it’s about how you wear it.


    Taking CARE (Without Guilt)

    We’ve spent years taking care of others—our families, our teams, our communities. But what about us?

    At this stage, prioritising our health and wellbeing is no longer a luxury—it’s essential. And yet, many of us still struggle with the guilt of putting ourselves first. It’s time to let that go.

    We Ask Ourselves: Am I treating my body with the same care I give to others?

    We Like To Make It Actionable: Prioritise movement, sleep, and nourishment—not as punishment, but as a form of self-respect. Find what feels good, not what feels forced.

    Who Embodies This For Us? Off the top of our heads, it’s the likes of Naomi Watts embracing midlife beauty, and Pamela Anderson’s natural self-acceptance. It’s inspiring and it’s refreshing.

    We’ll Leave You With This Thought: Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential.


    Deep & REAL Connections

    By midlife, we’ve learned that friendships and relationships evolve. Some fade naturally, some require effort, and some deepen in ways we never expected.

    What truly matters now isn’t the number of people in our lives, but the quality of the connections we keep.

    We Ask Ourselves: Which relationships bring me energy, and which ones drain me?

    We Like To Make It Actionable: Nurture the friendships that feel reciprocal and let go of relationships that no longer align with who you are.

    We’ll Leave You With This Thought: Friendship in midlife is about quality over quantity. It’s ok to let go.


    The Luxury of CHOICE

    The greatest luxury in midlife? Choice.

    Choosing where our energy goes. Choosing what we consume. Choosing how we define success. Choosing to say no more often.

    We Ask Ourselves: Am I making choices that align with what I truly want?

    We Like To Make It Actionable: Say no to things that drain you and yes to things that excite you—even if they scare you.

    We’ll Leave You With This Thought: True freedom isn’t having it all—it’s choosing what matters most.

    The Maison 1973 Takeaway:

    Our final thought? The maison 1973 woman isn’t here to live by someone else’s definition of success, beauty, or happiness. She knows what matters—and she builds her life around it.

    Not perfectly. Not always effortlessly. But with intention. With clarity. With a deep understanding that this is her time.

    Prioritise what matters.

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  • Boundaries, Burnout & The Art of Saying No

    Boundaries, Burnout & The Art of Saying No

    Energy is CURRENCY

    Say no, flourish.

    “If you want to fly, you have to give up the things that weigh you down.”

    We quote the incredible Nobel prize winning author, the late Toni Morrison.


    When Did Saying YES Become Second Nature?

    Yes to overtime, yes to family obligations, yes to friendships that no longer serve us, yes to overextending ourselves in ways that leave us drained. No wonder we feel burnt out! But as we evolve, so should our mindset. The maison 1973 woman understands that her energy is valuable, finite, and worth protecting.

    We’ve spent years holding it all together—careers, relationships, families, friendships, and expectations. We’ve been told to be accommodating, to be agreeable, to keep the peace. But let’s be clear: saying no isn’t selfish, it’s survival.

    This is a topic we feel very passionate about and want to continue to master. It’s pretty straightforward, so why aren’t we doing it more often?

    Why We’ve Been CONDITIONED To Say Yes

    The Gen X woman grew up in an era of hustle—whether in the workplace, in relationships, or in societal expectations. We were the first to juggle career and home life at full speed, breaking barriers yet still expected to be the dependable force behind it all.

    There comes a moment in every maison 1973 woman’s life when she realises—her time, energy, and peace are non-negotiable. After decades of saying yes to everyone else, midlife is the moment to reclaim what is yours.

    BURNOUT Is Not A Badge Of Honour

    We’ve been led to believe that exhaustion equals success—that if we’re not pushing ourselves to the limit, we’re not doing enough. But let’s be honest: running on empty isn’t the flex we once thought it was.

    Burnout manifests in ways we often dismiss—fatigue, resentment, anxiety, loss of passion, and even physical illness. The body keeps score, and if we don’t listen, it will force us to slow down. Why wait for the crash when we can take control now?

    The POWER of NO: Rewriting The Script

    Saying no is an act of radical self-care. It is an assertion of worth—a reminder that you get to choose where your energy flows.

    • No, I won’t overcommit my time.
    • No, I won’t say yes out of guilt.
    • No, I won’t entertain toxic relationships.
    • No, I won’t let society dictate how I “should” spend my time.

    Let’s be clear: this isn’t about isolation—it’s about intention. By saying no to what drains you, you create space for what energises you.

    How To Set BOUNDARIES

    Saying no is an act of radical self-care. It is an assertion of worth—a reminder that you get to choose where your energy flows. This is our golden rule of 5 that we never waiver from here at m’73 HQ:

    • Give Yourself Permission – You don’t need an excuse to set boundaries. Your peace is reason enough.
    • Say It Without Apology – “No” is a complete sentence. Drop the guilt.
    • Be Firm, Not Rude – Respectfully decline, but don’t waver. Boundaries are for you, not for them.
    • Prioritise Energy Over Obligation – If it doesn’t serve you, it’s a no.
    • Create a ‘Hell Yes’ Rule – If something isn’t a hell yes, it’s a hell no.

    When you start saying no, something powerful happens—you reclaim your time, your energy, your joy. You step into your full power as a woman who knows her worth and isn’t afraid to protect it.


    The Maison 1973 Takeaway:

    Midlife isn’t about pleasing everyone. It’s about choosing herself. That’s the most powerful yes of all.

    Get choosing.

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